From My Heart To All Single Ladies

By Sean Williams

I am speaking to you as a man, a father, a husband, and a minister. Please, please, please…do not settle when it comes on to relationships. Do not compromise. Do not commit your life, and your future to a man who is unworthy of such an investment. Do not fear being alone. Do not let fear drive you into the arms of a man whose arms will not comfort or protect you.

Now, I know that it is possible for men to deceive you, and to hide their true character. But I believe that a lot of the times, the warning signs are there; you just choose to ignore them. Do not let your insecurities be your compass. Do not let the media and the world define who you are.

I am writing this message because I am tired of encountering women who are involved with a man who they shouldn’t have been involved with in the first place. I am tried of hearing the stories of unmet expectations and heartbreak.

Please note this: You ARE valuable. You are SPECIAL. You are worthy of being the ONLY one, not just being another one. You have a LOT to offer. You have a divine PURPOSE. You are SIGNIFICANT. You deserve to be treated with HONOUR and RESPECT. You have been called to accomplish GREAT things and to impact NATIONS.

Do you know that the first person Jesus appeared to after His resurrection was a woman? And He did this even though, in those days, women were not regarded as people of influence. What am I saying? You are important to God. If God values you, shouldn’t the man who you are with value you too?

I pray that the Lord will show you WHO you really are so that you will live from HIS truth. I pray that you will recognize all the lies that you have been told, and break your agreement with them.

It is time my sisters. It is time. The time to arise is now. Your best days are ahead of you, not behind you.

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9 Comments Add yours

  1. Marsha Clarke says:

    Well said Sean! Agree 100%. God is faithful. The compromise is never worth it.

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    1. Thank you so much for reading and commenting Marsha. We really do appreciate you.

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  2. Kathleen says:

    Thanks so much for sharing this! A really great reminder to all women 🙂

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    1. Thanks so much for taking the time to read and comment on the article Kathleen. Bless you.

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  3. Very well said!! Thanks for sharing!

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  4. Just love this, so many young women need to hear this and know their true worth as daughters of Christ! Love when men take the time to support women this way! Visiting from Christian Women Bloggers Unite!

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    1. Thank you so much holy vacation Queen for taking the time to read. Wow I really do appreciate your support. It’s such a blessing to have sisters from the blog group read and enjoy each other’s blog. Bless you and thank you.

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  5. Clare Speer says:

    Good message for single women to not “settle” – women need this message!

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    1. Hi Clare thanks so much for taking the time to read this article. Pastor Sean really hit the nail on the head with this one. I’m happy you could connect with what he wrote as well. Bless you.

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